Tuesday, June 29, 2010

生存的权利

周末带孩子们去看加拿大太阳剧团(Circus de Soleil)的演出。 马戏团精彩的表演让我们很兴奋。尤其Katie和旻达能从自己的舞蹈训练中体会其中的高难动作。我们后面一排时时有人发出似哭似笑的声音,十分吓人。中场休息时,看到是一个15-25岁的女孩,由父母牵着手。Katie散场后,跟我说,她可能有Down Syndrome。 我知道Katie曾有过同学有这种病,她同学的父母曾经去她的班上给那些6-7岁的孩子讲这种病的起因与症状。

我很欣赏这些父母让他们享受快乐的做法,让他们有正常人的生活与乐趣。

Monday, June 21, 2010

DIY

旻达最近DIY(Do-it-by-yourself, 自己动手)的水平大涨。

这天,我看见餐桌边的旻达脸上有好多红包包,很吃惊地问她吃了什么不该吃的东西。她告诉我,桃子。
“没关系,我洗一洗,擦点油就好了。”
我更吃惊地看着她蹬蹬蹬跑到洗手间,洗了脸,擦了油,没有诉苦。两个小时以后,那些包消下去了。

又一天,我想给她做点简易早饭。她牛奶不吃,面包不吃,要吃饺子。 那我可来不及做。
“要不要吃方便面?”这属于不健康食品,我还以为自己额外大方呢。
“我不喜欢吃方便面。我吃了肚子痛。"
方便面里有干的豌豆,我看旻恺吃得起劲,以为两人都不过敏了。实际上旻达对自己的状况还把握得很好。

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Teachers

The last day of school for Minkai and Minda, I went to their picnic and wanted to go back to work after that. Minda did not want me to leave and tears came off. I brought her to the lines going out to a magic show after the picnic. Her teacher saw her and asked me, "do you need to go?" I nodded. Her teacher said, "Minda, come here." She hugged Minda and said, "I know." Then I left. I felt fortunate to have kids' teachers so caring.

Minkai started to learn percentage in his last weeks' school. He knows how to do multiplication of a number with a percentage, such as (6%x75). In Minkai's progress report, his teacher said that they (teachers as a team) would "work hard next year to continue to challenge Minkai in math to support his incredible math knowledge."

My kids love school. It is so important to provide students care, understanding, challenge, and supports in a school.

Monday, June 7, 2010

独一无二的孩子

每个孩子都是独一无二的。旻恺也不例外。

五月份的一个星期天,旻达和霭琳都去跳舞了。 吃完晚饭,旻恺问我,“我干点什么呢?”
”你边看电视边叠衣服好不好?" 在我们家,看电视是件难得的事,要和劳动联系起来的。
旻恺点点头,跑上楼让爸爸把楼下的一筐衣服拿上来给他叠。

我去看书了。过了二十分钟,听到旻恺说,“爸爸,你把衣服拿上来呀。”
又过了十多分钟,我听到玩窗帘的声音。走进我的房间一看,旻恺正无聊地拉窗帘,他爸爸坐在一边上网。
我觉得有点好笑,“旻恺,你可以先看电视。” 旻恺立即爬上床,打开电视...

又一天,92F(33C)的气温。旻恺踢完球回来,又黑又红。我让他喝一些水,休息一下再吃饭。
旻恺见我没问他的战况,主动说,“妈妈,It's so hard to win them today (今天赢起来真难)。”
“噢。”
“我们队只有三个人。另一个队四个人。有一段时间,我们队只有两个人在场上。但我们2:0赢了。”
我记得霭琳小的时候特怕热。 90F以上踢球就不肯跑了,站在那儿叫热。旻恺想赢,不怕热。